A young girl's idea of a 'postbox to heaven' allowing people to send letters to deceased loved ones could soon be installed at a Norfolk crematorium following its success.
Cromer could be one of 36 sites across the country earmarked for the postbox after the idea proved so popular.
Grieving Matilda Handy suggested the heartwarming idea while looking for a way to express her emotions after her grandparents passed away.
The schoolgirl wanted to send her late gran and granddad cards and letters so her mum approached Gedling Crematorium, in Lambley, Nottingham, where she works.
Crematorium bosses responded by installing an old postbox painted white just before Christmas, which led to more than 100 letters being posted.
Matilda first thought of her idea when her post office worker grandmother Pat died in 2017 before she also lost her grandad Keith in November last year.
Mother Leanne, 45, hopes her daughter's heartfelt creation can help ease the suffering grief causes and be of comfort on anniversaries and holidays.
Leanne, from Arnold, Nottingham, said: "My mum and dad are in heaven and so we’re sending them letters in heaven.
“My mum passed away in 2017 and since then Matilda has always said she wishes we could send cards and letters to her mama in heaven.
"My mum worked in a post office for 25 years in our local community and it just seemed fitting for her.
“Matilda was so used to being around postboxes and letters and always wanted to send mama one.
“We wanted to unveil it at Christmas. We wanted to make sure it was the right time.
“A lot of people miss sending cards at Christmas time and that’s an important occasion for people in the community.
“It's used every single day, whether it's someone old or young.
"People find real comfort in sending something, whether it’s a child drawing a picture or an older person sending something to their loved ones."
"It helps with the grieving process."
Matilda’s maternal grandmother Pat Morris died in 2017 while her paternal grandad Keith Handy passed away in November 2022, shortly before the box was opened.
The schoolgirl said the postbox also helped her with the loss of her grandad and hopes it can aid others dealing with grief.
She said: “We're doing these to be used by people when they walk past.
"It's been hard because my grandad passed away in November 2022 so it definitely did help me.
"It's just a very nice way to express my feelings and send a letter to them and to say how much I love them."
Matilda was the first to use the postbox and sent a letter containing a moving poem which read: "If heaven had a phone, Then I'd give you a ring. Just hear your voice and tell you, How my day has been.
"But it doesn't have a phone, To make missing you better, So instead I write my feelings down. And send them in a letter."
The Westerleigh group, which own the crematorium, is planning to introduce the boxes to all of its 36 UK sites - as well as three new ones due to open later this year.
Matthew Brook, head of memorialisation at Westerleigh Group, said: “Matilda’s postbox has touched hearts of so many bereaved people across the country.
“Priding ourselves on serving our communities with exceptional care, we are delighted to be installing similar postboxes across all Westerleigh Group crematoria and helping many others who are grieving the loss of their loved one in a similar way."
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